End the Silence and the shame

You Are Not Alone

Help for individuals and loved ones impacted by BFRBs

Tired of consantly wearing a hat to hide your head?

Exhausted by the shame of hiding your skin picking? Frustrated by that out-of-control feeling during a BFRB episode? I see you. I’ve been there, too — and I know how heavy it can feel.

This page is here to support you with real tools, compassionate stories, and practices that have helped me on my own healing journey.

You’re not broken. You’re not alone. And there is a way forward — one intention, one breath, one day at a time. Be kind and don't give up on yourself.

The Power of I AM

The Power of I AM

Do you know what the two most powerful words in the world are? I am. And the words that follow this statement? They create your reality. Those words become the...
Charina Cabanayan
From Pulling to Planting: The Story Behind Tiny Intentions

From Pulling to Planting: The Story Behind Tiny Intentions

In this deeply personal post, I share my journey with Trichotillomania—a body-focused repetitive behavior (BFRB) I lived with for years—and how it led to the creation of Tiny Intentions, a collection of mindful, empowering, wearable botanical tattoos to support positive change and improve mental health. From silence and shame to healing and hope, this story offers insight, encouragement, and gentle tools for anyone navigating the path of self-awareness, habit change, or emotional healing.

Stop the Suffering in Silence: A Guide to Understanding and Supporting BFRBs

Stop the Suffering in Silence: A Guide to Understanding and Supporting BFRBs

Millions of people live with Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) like hair pulling, skin picking, and nail biting—often in silence. In this post, I share what BFRBs are, how they impact daily life, and why compassion and awareness are powerful tools for healing and support. Whether you're navigating a BFRB yourself or supporting someone who is, this is a reminder: you’re not alone, and healing is possible.

Charina Cabanayan
Supporting Someone with BFRBs: A Compassionate Guide for Family, Friends, and Coworkers

Supporting Someone with BFRBs: A Compassionate Guide for Family, Friends, and Coworkers

Supporting someone with Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBs) like hair pulling, skin picking, or nail biting requires empathy, patience, and understanding. Whether it’s a family member, friend, or coworker, this guide offers practical, compassionate ways to provide meaningful support without judgment. Learn how to create safe spaces, show unconditional love, and be an ally on their healing journey.

Charina Cabanayan